For the disruptors. For the pattern breakers.
For those who are done self-abandoning to survive.
I’m done outsourcing my power.
I’m done outsourcing my agency and authority.
I’m done betraying myself for approval I don’t even believe in.
I’m done pretending I don’t know what I feel, want, or need—just to be easy to love.
I’m done with inherited shame, generational trauma, and systems that thrive on my disconnection.
I’m done living under expectations I never signed up for.
I’m no longer here to perform.
I’m here to remember.
To reclaim.
To rise.
I pledge to return to my body.
To listen, not override.
To feel, not analyze.
To breathe, not brace.
I pledge to follow my emotions—not fear them—because they are the language of my soul.
They are the GPS I was never taught how to use.
They are not too much.
They are messages. They are data. They are divine.
I pledge to stop apologizing for my boundaries.
For my needs.
For my preferences.
For my NO.
I pledge to stop fixing what was never broken—just conditioned.
My power is not a threat.
My softness is not a weakness.
My desires are not too much.
I am no longer available for inner clenching.
For shrinking.
For shape-shifting.
For self-abandonment.
I am available for self-trust.
For peace.
For power.
For clarity.
For choice.
For truth.
This isn’t a personality makeover.
It’s a skill set—and I’m going to learn it.
I don’t need to be perfect.
I just need to be willing.
I don’t need more motivation.
I need more compassion—for my nervous system, for my patterns, for my mind doing its best to protect me.
And I’m learning that, too.
I reclaim my:
— Time —
— Voice —
— Nervous system —
— Energy —
— Power —
— Breath —
— Preferences —
— Truth —
— Agency —
— Authority —
This is how I stop abandoning myself.
This is how I reclaim my energy.
This is how I build a life that fits who I actually am.
This is how I heal generational trauma and shame.
This is how I disrupt the systems that profit from my silence.
This is how I take up space in a world that told me to shrink.
This is how I stop being a martyr and start being a creator.
This is how I become unshakably self-led.
I am not fundamentally flawed.
I am profoundly capable.
I am not becoming.
I am remembering.
I am not the continuation.
I am the pattern breaker.
I am the disruptor.
I am the revolution.